Pieces of... Aweng

Home is Where the Heart Is

2010-03-11T22:56:00.005+08:00

A man travels the world over in search of what he needs and returns home to find it.
~George Moore

Time and again, I find myself longing to pursue all things I have wanted... all things I have long since dreamed for. But when I stop to think about how much their achievements bring me such pride and joy, I quietly smile and tell myself everything's more than worth it.

It's exam week for Lian. We worked much harder today than we did yesterday. Math is her weakness, the rest are ok as long as she does not get careless (like I always was). Dylan's was a week ago and I already have my proof of excellence with scores shouting "You're a Winner Mom!" hahaha ;)

I'm sure the commencement would be another proud-momma event for me. :D

Having finished off an article, I had the urge to look through profiles...

Then somewhere along somebody's album-not sure what got me thinking but my hyper-active mind brought "success" to my attention. I remembered what I thought about a supposedly inspiring article I have just edited about success being all about happiness and not how huge your net worth is. Hmmm... while reading, I thought the author was just defensive - maybe he was frustrated and sometimes it's easier to crack philosophical whatsis to make up for the failures. Well, I do so a lot. And when the frustration reaches neck high, that'll be the time you'll hear some guru out of me. Ask my friends, I'm a natural pilosopo. Hehehe.

Kidding aside, I do get deep and philosophical at times like these.

I have had plans. Well we all should do. But somehow, somewhere, the trip went bad. These past few months have been the most financially challenging days of my married life. :) So plans changed... again.

But I have faith that my time will come. For now, I've got to make the most of what I have. I have a home with beautiful, bright kids that gets me my dose of everyday natural high - good or bad trip, i love them. So far, in my lifetime knowing how good my kids are doing is one of the best feelings I have ever felt. It always wants to make me cry.

So, while everybody is out there making a name for themselves and chasing the rainbows of their dreams that they believe would complete their being. I remain at home, enduring the pains and lavishing at the joys of motherhood. At least I am whole.

Soon I will be chasing rainbows, but let me build the foundations for them first. And when that time comes when I get to pursue my dreams, I would be doing that without a worry in mind. Their success is mine, and I know the time will come when I get to make them proud as they have made me so.

You are My Sweetest Downfall

2010-01-16T11:30:00.004+08:00

"don't depend on anyone in this world.. coz even your shadow leaves you when you're in darkness" a text message from Shayne Vergara

There's nothing romantic here to read... really. :)

It all started out with a text message. Forwarded or not, I loved the thought because it speaks highly of truth.

It brought me years back, to when I was this young idealistic friend. I've always prided myself to be one great friend, though nobody really said so. hahaha This has always been how I saw myself. I was the type to leave everything, even defy my parents if I have to, just so I could run to an ailing friend's side. That was me... always ready to charge in defense if anybody who I call a friend.

You see, we grow up. A lot of things change. We learn a lot... and I did, the hard way as I am not one to easily change. Stubborn as a mule, they say.

As I went through the harshest of life, I have... at a point in my life, lost faith in friendships.

But this borne optimism in my heart, not sadness.

I don't know how I got to think about the song, Samson. Probably because through it all, though we now live a life far apart from each other... I draw strength from that brave, happy side of me. And it was you, friend, that nourished the seed that made me into the beautiful bloom that I am now.

You will forever be a part of me... long after history has forgotten us.

And I realize that this is enough.

"You told me I was beautiful and you came into my bed
Oh you cut my hair one night
A pair of dull scissors in the yellow light
And I told you that you'd done alright

You are my sweetest downfall
I loved you first, I loved you first
Beneath the sheets of paper lies my truth
You have to go, you have to go
My hair was long when we first met"

I love you and forever cherish the good times... I pray we have more...

Lian and Dylan's Christmas Parties: Lessons Learned

2009-12-19T23:45:00.006+08:00

Dec. 15, 2009

Davao City Special School

Surprise! Surprise!

What I knew was that Lian was among the angels... period.

Arriving late, and everybody waiting (hehehe), I was surprised when she went straight to the front. Oh, me! My pretty baby- Allysa Beyoncé (Lian), was the emcee. I was never good at speaking publicly and I was so happy to see her reading the script hahaha.

After the long formality, then came the presentation of the whole class. Again, she was in front holding the wand I made her, in silky white.. hair braided around her head like a double halo next the golden piece she was wearing. With feathery wings stiff against her back, she started to prance along the floor waving her wand as she goes round and round. Then she stopped by her teacher's side then again... she read.

She was the narrator, and from the first few lines I knew that she was the Star... the little bright star that led the wise men to the stable where Christ was born... the Star of Bethlehem.

While sitting there afront, holding my digital cam to record, I realized I have not known... All I knew was she was playing the part of an angel. Guess I'm still bad at communicating huh? :)

But nevertheless, she looked and fitted the part... she's a star... my precious star.

Here's a video of the last part of the last part of the presentation...

Dec. 17, 2009

Matina Baptist Child Care Learning Center

Another party...

Lately I've been needing some good organizing badly! Having slept by the break of dawn, I frantically woke up at 8 in the morning remembering that I have not yet gotten my boy his gift. It's been a tradition in the school that instead of kinder students exchanging gifts, moms and dads give their child a gift. Good thing my mom was by to get something and reminded me that the party was still by 1pm. Then the morning came in a blur... gotten myself busy with procrastinated tasks... (so Aweng). Lunch time, I went to Centerpoint which was just several blocks away.

Went from shop to shop, then I finally found Dylan's favorite... Bumblebee of Transformers. Waiting in line to pay, I prepared my bill... Uh oh... There were just 2 fifties, 1 twenty, and lotsa coins.. Effin engerts!

Time check: NO TIME! Dashed back to the toy alley and grabbed the very first robot that can be bought with the cash I got on-hand.

Fast forward: Got to school. Not late- but did we CRAM. (again, so Aweng).

I've always taken pride on how my bambino- John Nathaniel (Dylan), buzzes with that passion to perform. And another thing that this event made me realize was how good he was at memorization. With just several repetitions, he was able to recite back to me his part while we were practicing at home. : )

Here's the presentation:

So there was singing, dancing, speeches, even story-telling, and the meal...

I forgot all about the gift.

I dreaded seeing him frustrated!

The gifts were distributed. Then the big announcement came, "Time to open the gifts". Remote controlled cars, shiny red fire trucks... my heart sank. Then my boy came to me.. told me... "Mama pa-kiss", after that sweet kiss, he whispered his thanks. And he went running back to his friends, playing - not minding that his gift was smaller and less fancier than theirs.

I so misjudged.

God I love my kids!

Salamat Lord!

**Other videos you can watch at my YouTube Channel.. http://www.youtube.com/user/hotmommaweng

Consumer Review: Marina Tuna Seafoods Restaurant

2009-12-02T14:29:00.005+08:00

Though we have different tastes, my Hubby and I share this love for food. We love eating out and I love trying out new stuffs and places.

On one of our out-of-town trips, I spotted Marina Tuna Seafoods Restaurant- situated along the rustic avenues of Lanang. Since then I've wanted to try the resto out.

The food was pricey and we got what we paid for. Yum.. yum is all I can say. :) So the food was the delicious, but the rest about Marina Tuna Seafoods Restaurant was not as delightful. First off, the employees were not at all attentive. However case does not apply to all as some table from ours there was this foreigner dining out- the waitress was all-out helpful but she was not as helpful when it came to catering to our orders. Do we not pay the same rate or was she hoping to get some tip? When you call on somebody, it takes too much time for them to respond and the most irritating thing about it is that they were doing nothing..

You can call the place ok- it was clean, and the seafood aquarium added a touch of market-feel (a good one) to it. For me, there was not much thought put into the Interior. The place had no personality. The tables and chairs alone were crowded enough, so much more if it were filled with people. It was hard to move around.

I believe that what you payfor dining out does not cover the food cost alone but the entire dining experience.

So, Marina Tuna Seafoods Restaurant - great food and it ends there.

Philippine Shell Tiles for Construction and Decorative Purposes

2009-11-28T12:49:00.002+08:00

While working on an article, I researched on "tile". On the first page of Google search results, my eye quickly caught "Philippines". So I went to the website and browsed through pages... It was really interesting and the products were so beautiful that I have to share...

Photos link to their original location, so you can click on these photos to go to their website and browse for more.

You can also get to the http://www.shelltile.com/ directly through this link:
Shell Tile

Beware of Facebook Ads Scam

2009-11-26T13:48:00.003+08:00

Earn thousands of pesos in an hour?

If its too good to be true, it probably is.

I have once come upon this ad in Facebook that you could earn heaps in an hour just by shopping and I got to this site.. http://bizsuccessblogs.com/rosariobautista/blog/?t202id=93221&t202kw=Fph-5

Though, it was obviously a scam, I still researched on it and satisfied myself by proving the obvious. There have already been many who took the bite and got their CCs wrongly charged.

Now, I got to see not the exactly the same ad but offering the same "get-money-quick" thing, leading to the same link.

Beware!

~~~~~~

Just a few minutes ago I wrote this post, the scam FB ad is again plastered on my sidebar: Become a Clothing Buyer

Learn to purchase clothes online and get paid. The starting wage for a clothing buyer is P1610 per hour.

At least I get to copy-paste it here before I report it... again~!

Depressed? Here's How to Eat Your Way to Happiness

2009-11-08T15:14:00.005+08:00

Pigging out is among the most common habits of people who are depressed. But if you opt for nutritious goodies proven to help you battle away the stress and depression, you'll be breathing HAPPINESS in no time.

Though ice cream and other sugary treats are not on the list, don't fret as these healthy snacks promise to leave you not only feeling lighter, physically and emotionally but also looking better.

Citrus Fruits (lemons, oranges...)
Vitamin C boosts the mood by reducing the levels of stress hormones in the body. To better keep your calm at tough times, get your regular dose of this vitamin.

Leafy Veggies
Folic acid, the main ingredient found in these leafy veggies has been proven to enhance blood flow to the brain and reduce the melancholic feeling.

Nuts
What better way to go nuts- than over nuts? (Korniks! hehehe)
Though a self-indulgent pleasure (being high in fat), nuts do their good share in upping the ante of your aura. Rich in magnesium, Vitamin E, and arginine (an amino acid) these little wonders reduce blood sugar levels. High blood sugar levels lead to mood swings, so if you often get caught in such storms, watch the sugar!

Fatty Fish Friends
Our fatty fish friends like tuna, salmon, sardines and mackerel are great sources of DHAs or omega-3 fatty acids. This mood-boosting ingredient not only lowers the chances of depression but also the risks of age-related memory loss. The American Psychiatric Association even recommends the intake of omega 3s for patients going through therapies and medication to ward off depression.

Dried Cherries
The magnesium, Potassium and vitamin C in dried cherries work together to restrain the body from responding to stress. Rich in antioxidants, dried cherries also promotes better health for your brain cells, avoiding memory problems and your body in general--which according to a TV ad will "Look young and feel young".

:) Mao ra!
Mao na magmulti-vitamins para... "HAPPINESS" :))

Looking for Free Music Download?

2009-10-21T15:02:00.004+08:00

I have long since uninstalled my Limewire with all those junk I was getting. Recently, an urge to have new songs on my player rose. This got me researching on "safe, free music download" which got me reading loads of forum threads. Lots of websites came up.... but then I got to one post telling the asker that Limewire was OK as long as you know how to set its options to avoid getting searches that might contain viruses and other bad stuffs.

From here, I jumped from post to post getting great insights on the topic. Basically, MP3 is too small a file to get any virus to come with it. The worst thing you'd get is an unfinished song or those that got advertisements inserted.

What you have got to be wary about are zipped files, xls and xls files.

Then again, another problem... I was looking for OPM but could not find sources to the search results. Searched again and found http://www.oonly.com/

So far, I have downloaded about 10 OPM songs which are of great quality. So this comes highly recommended. Luv it!

:)

Leaving Scour

2009-10-15T23:01:00.002+08:00

I am now deleting my account with Scour.

It's sad, but what drew me into joining the search engine community in the first place is already banished. Yes, the team has already discontinued the Scour Points Rewards program that lets users accumulate points for every search, vote and comments they contribute to make searching experience most relevant.

It was what made the whole idea of contributing so much fun.

Too bad for those who were just some points close to receiving their $25 certificate.

Scour could've gained some loyalty if the team was as quick in recreating a concept where users would still enjoy some fringes as they were in removing the program that made them as popular in the first place.

Well, goodbye now. :)

Good luck.

Free Blog Publishing Services

2009-09-13T22:30:00.002+08:00

Once upon a time, I have created a blog with DavaoBloggers.com- a website offering free blogs..

So I registered and got my blog running.. I have already published a good number of articles when one day...

I got myself pumped up with inspiration and itching to write another travel article... I typed in the first few letters of the website address and had my task hastened by autosave.. Clicked on the URL and POOF "This web page is parked FREE courtesy of GoDaddy.com"

And where my files went? Nada! I have tried contacting admin about how I could retrieve my files... no reply whatsoever.

This incident happened a long time ago.

I was just browsing through travel articles (planning on a Gumasa trip), then I remembered my once "travel blog". Gone with the wind.

So if you are thinking of creating one free, go for tried and tested names- Wordpress, Blogger, etc. Good luck to those planning on new blogging endeavors and hopefully you won't have to face this same problem that haunts me.

:)

Thoughts on Budgeting and My Very Own Cam

2009-09-06T20:41:00.007+08:00

I've always been a fan of bargains. I love ukay-ukay and other such cheap buys...

But when I have become a mother of two, juggling finances have become more challenging. And now, I don't just pinch pesos but I pinch them the right way.

Quality comes at a price... but you do not have to resort to buying the most expensive to avail of utmost comfort and utter style. Spend money wisely. Shop and buy quality products... at discounted prices. :D

Yes I love bargains but I am also one of the most impulsive buyers... :)

Just recently, me and Lian went to SM after school to pay the bills. We got ourselves at the third floor for some meal (she loves Pasta Pancit's spaghetti). I wandered around just to look and ended up buying my very own digital camera.

Luckily, many items at ElectroWorld was on sale with some packaged with tempting freebies. I saw this Olympus camera inside a glass stand with some 3,000-4,000 worth of Nokia phone and it comes free with the cam. I have had it tried but the photo quality was not as good with Sony. From the time I had my Ericsson phone, I fell in love with Cyber-shot. The digital cameras that many of those I know are also Sony. So I decided to opt for Sony without the free phone.

Little did I know that I was in for a surprise...

Surprise.. hehehe... I got 1,500 off of the separate Memory Card I bought.. from 2,499 I paid only 999. This discount also applies to a other Digicam Accessories. And the more expensive the camera you choose to buy, the better discounts you'll get on accessories.

The camera was tested. The salesman and I checked the contents inside the box. And then, I noticed another box attached to the camera's that he was packing.

Nice... a free Sony LCD Cleaning Kit.

ElectroWorld still has a lot of discounted offerings. Some of those I remember were digicams- Canon and Olympus, 50% off on selected HP cartridges and a whole lot more.

:) Love it...

Mar Roxas Handing the Reign Over to NoyNoy Aquino

2009-09-01T21:33:00.004+08:00

Now that's leadership!

From the early evening news up late tonight, the loudest buzz revolves around the backing down of Senator Mar Roxas from the Presidential race to give way to the call of the Masses and that is to have NoyNoy Aquino run for President.

Filipinos have long since been known for their conservative and at times far-out traditions. "It runs in the blood" may now be the best dominating cliché to spell out how the people feel-wanting to have another Aquino get a shot at turning Philippine politics around. And indeed, our deep-rooted and great love for our family can make us do such huge things, good or bad. In Noy's case, I honestly have thought he'd give Pilipinas a good fight if he gets that chance at Presidency. We Filipinos have this great devotion to our family, specifically our moms. I believe that Noy and I share this with the majority of the population and I have faith that this reverence to the legacy that both Ninoy Aquino and Cory Aquino have memorably left will be what will push Noy to be at his best.

It was such a noble thing to do for Mar Roxas. In his press conference, though he did not announce running alongside Noy as Vice President, he left word of not leaving him. Tomorrow, it will be Noy's turn to hold a press conference and we'll probably hear their party's decision by then.

Senator Kiko Pangilinan, of the same party and the original bet for VP, also made a statement to the media that he would be ever willing to do what is best for nation.

It feels, so amazing. Throughout the "on and off" years of trapo where most political leaders are only driven by their ambition, these men are truly some breath of fresh air.

KAtarungan
ito ang gusto ko
kalayaan
ito ang gusto ko
KApayapaan
ito ang gusto ko
karapatan pang tao
ito ang gusto ko
kalikasan
ito ang gusto ko
kabataaan
ito ang gusto ko
kaibigan
ito ang gusto ko

Sa buhay kong ito, ito ang gusto ko!
~ Francis M.

Election is Near

2009-08-24T13:08:00.006+08:00

Sad to say, many officials that have been put into power by Filipino citizens remain just politicians and have not gotten to the point of becoming honest public servants. I have taken these photos some weeks back while we- my family together with my in-laws, went to Pantukan to visit relatives.

The scene brought back memories of a road construction here in San Miguel. It was in 2007, and I asked my mother why the work was being done, she answered that because the election was nearing.

Early this year up until now, I've again witnessed a lot of these road works. I have heard a lot of talk from bus drivers and commuters alike... phrased in many other ways but hold one common thought and this is: "lucky if the road gets finished before election, if not, I'm sure it will be left incomplete." And this is how a lot of government work ends up.

Just as cold breezes conjures the nearing of Christmas, these projects also spell names of nagpapapoging politicians.

The saddest part is that this has almost become a tradition.

Watch daily news and you'll witness how the grand circus is slowly being staffed up for the coming Big Show and that is the coming 2010 election.

Amidst all the chaos brought forth by dirty politicians, it's still good to know that the society is slowly realizing that they can do something. The media, youth and other organizations propagating goodwill and progress are working towards igniting more hearts, convincing more minds, and leading more souls... to do what is right and that is participating in the election and voting the right public servants.. not just politicians.

I long to get my fingers dirty again!

The Best Question Ever...

2009-07-27T10:20:00.004+08:00

Last Sunday, I got to attend service at the Victory Christian Fellowship :)

It all started out with the photo of Jonelie with the huge Kid's Church Logo. I contacted her to ask about the place and how I can get my kids to join.

Moms just want the best for their kids. And for me, most of the time, what I do for their good ends me working on what's good for me too.

So I got them into Kid's Church, and I got ushered into the service. Last Sunday was my second time. I sang and prayed with them Christians, and I wrote on the donation envelope before offering it that I wanted them to help me pray for "Direction- career-wise and life in general."

And the topic of the service? "The Best Question Ever..."

It is said to be the one question to get you through all those other questions life throws at you.

Often times when we are at the brink of making decisions, we tend to base our evaluations on less effective filters. Temptation gets the best of us and leads us into self-deception. We readily make excuses for choosing to do the wrong thing thinking: Nobody's going to be hurt, I can quit anytime I want, Nobody's ever gonna know, I'll just do this once... etc.

Sounds family kaayo noh? Hahaha. If words were stones, pastang dagkua nako'g bukol...

Then we came to the Best Question Ever and it is: "What is the wise thing to do?"

And this comes in three variations:

"In light of my past experiences, what is the wise thing to do?"
"In light of my present circumstances, what is the wise thing to do?", and
"In light of my future hopes and dreams, what is the wise thing to do?"

Hopefully, these takes me where I ought to be...

God willingly...

Ipanemas: More High-End Slippers for Sale!

2009-07-16T13:03:00.008+08:00

Here's another set of Brazil-made slippers to boot!

These Gisele Bündchen slippers sport a sexy thong-like front straps with an extra around-the-ankle support. Light-weight and durable, they'll surely add more pimpin' to whatever outfit you're wearin' ;) From casual malling, to beaching, and even late night partying... true gems to behold.

Size: 6
Price: PHP 1,500 only

Offer limited to Davao buyers only.

Interested?

Contact 09206590513, 2924210 or awengbasco [at] gmail [dot] com

Also available in grey with black and silver accents:

Havaianas: FlipFlops For Sale

2009-07-16T12:38:00.006+08:00

Original Havaianas

Products Details:

This pair of slippers, from the tropical Republic of bronzed beauties- Brazil, features beautiful golden straps. The flat, timeless white sole is accented with peacock designs of gold and bright hues for an added touch of funk.

Price: PHP 850.00 only
Size: 35/36 (See photo below)

Offer limited to Davao buyers only.

Interested?

Contact 09206590513, 2924210 or awengbasco [at] gmail [dot] com

Vampire Wars

2009-06-02T08:55:00.002+08:00

Another Facebook App that I oh so love.. :)

Want to become a part of my clan and have me in yours?

Enter the Night!

Here's my FB Profile:

Aweng Moral-Basco

Mother's Day... everyday

2009-05-27T22:32:00.002+08:00

What better way to spend Mother’s Day than to be with your dear momma going places- Luzon, Visayas, Mindanao for more than a week?

People who have the chance to be with their moms should always take advantage of the opportunities to really spend time with them.

We are truly lucky…
For not all moms have this time for their children and not all children still have moms. It's even sad that some moms don't even bother...

It pays to spend more time with people you love…

Cherish the moments...

~The greatest way to spend life's firsts... with the one that brought you out into this wonderful world. :)

Food for the Soul

2009-04-29T18:21:00.003+08:00

I've been fighting hard to stay focused these past few days.

And for most days, I have failed miserably... giving in to attending less important to the most trivial matters as they are much enjoyable to do.

:) But what I'm gonna share is not really related to what I have just been blabbering about.

Clickety... click
Clickety... click

Goes my fingers punching their way through the keyboard.

My mind wanders while I try to get my writing juices simmering. From the blast of my nanay's television, which is uncomfortably loud and situated just some inches away from where my computer is situated, goes the advice of Gary V. to a player of a game show.

I'll be rephrasing as I'm not sure of the exact words but the message was really nice:

The player was deciding whether to give up the game and be contented with the amount currently in the pot and playing more for a chance to hit the jackpot of risk losing everything.

"If you think that the 'amount' is already good, then you can go ahead end the game. But whichever decision you end up with, remember that God is in control."

:) nice

Angelina and Yaya

2009-04-27T15:46:00.003+08:00

I've always been a huge fan of Bubble Gang. I've been watching most of the same comedians that have popularized Tropang Trumpo that started way back my late elementary years.

Now, one of the most hilarious characters that enjoy the most, are the spoiled brat Angelina and her Yaya- portrayed by two of the most talented comedians in Philippine TV, Ogie Alcasid and Micheal V.

Here's one of their videos...

Robin Hood: A Facebook App

2009-04-25T14:29:00.005+08:00

:) Yes, this has been what's keeping me busy while I count the days away, anticipating the coming trip to Manila.

It has even kept me from doing a lot of the routine stuffs I do. I even find it hard to work without opening another tab to check on my Stamina if I have gained some to be able to fight other Bands.

It all started with another app. It was either (Lil) Green Patch or Owned, can't really remember. But I needed to try this app to get more credits.

Loved it. And now I'm hooked. I now have 37 in my band :) Good thing, I did some researching.

Because I so loved the game, I got really frustrated sending out invites and not really getting anybody to try the app and join my band. And so, I Scoured the world-wide web for an idea and I have found it. I found a discussion of Robin Hood fanatics who are willing to have me as a member of their bands, and them in mine.

You can search and checkout Robin Hood Groups and Pages in Facebook. Join, and post "add me's" to the Wall. In a matter of minutes, your band will be numbers more.

Here's the official page of Robin Hood, become a fan and have access to a network of active players who, like you, are so into the game..
http://www.facebook.com/apps/application.php?id=50798264961&ref=ts

Other groups/pages:

Looking Back: Backpacking Beyond the North

2009-04-25T00:25:00.008+08:00

As I have mentioned in an older post, I have also had the chance to go backpacking.

Before traveling, I got the chance to enjoy a night of laughter with some of the family: nanay, mama, papa, ate helen, igie and megan, and my sister vessie.

First stop: San Francisco, Agusan del Sur- a quaint locality amidst some good stretch of greeneries- hills and rice fields.

I'm not really good at memorizing names- people or places- unless they have made a distinct mark.

So here goes some of those I remembered:

San Isidro- where we indulged in sumptuous crabs at 75 pesos a dish- imagine that! :)

Sigaboy- it's not really the actual place that made me remember it but the glorious lands of natural bounty that lies along the road leading to the place. Passing through, some patches made me think of luxurious Mountain Golf Resorts that I used to write about. :) Amazing.

Mati and it's sleeping dinosaur or sleeping dragon (shrugs) I heard people use either.

Pantukan where we visited relatives of my husband including the bub Queenie.

Tagum.

Pindasan and its collection of beautiful beach resorts.

A side-trip overnight at Samal.

Etc., etc.,

The photos that I have taken- there's not much scenes to see, mostly me and my hubby :)

Canibad: The Already Not-So Hidden Paradise

2009-04-25T00:02:00.004+08:00

Black Sabbath and Easter Sunday was spent with the family at Canibad. Though the place still remains unserviced with basic amenities such as power lines and commercial water supply, it has come along way from the 'Hidden Paradise' that it once was known.

Arriving atop the limestone roads leading to the enthralling shores of Canibad, you'd readily notice a lot of signage pointing you down the way. Today, you can opt to make use of cement slabs that could pass as stairs for a small fee. :)

And further down, the beach is already lined by humble resorts.

The highlight of our trip was exploring the coasts, passing through rough coasts studded with odd shaped boulders, beautiful and large wood drifts, pebbly to sandy beaches and several private resorts which could pass as classy. :)

BTW, here's an older post about Canibad...
http://awengmoralbasco.blogspot.com/2007/09/canibad.html

Here are some of our pics:

Susan Boyle

2009-04-22T13:22:00.002+08:00

Susan Boyle on Britains Got Talent 2009!! Incredible Voice!! @ Yahoo! Video

My...

It's been about days now since I've always been seeing news features of Susan Boyle. It never really occurred to me as interesting so I just let them pass. Today, while browsing through News on Yahoo!, I again saw pictures of this old and unattractive woman. Thinking, who the hell?

Then my curiosity got the better of me...

As my intro goes... just "My..."

My throat ached, trying hard not to cry. It seemed that I was among those people who never took a second notice to Susan just because she was unattractive but soon, watching the video, I thought... She was amazing!

It was a slap in the face really.

How judgmental people could get, including I.

I was glad to have found myself watching that video realizing what a big cynic I was.

Lesson learned. :)

Trouble with Sony Cybershot DSC-T3

2009-04-14T12:58:00.002+08:00

It was really just some stupid mistake I've overlooked. But nevertheless, it took me three computers to realize... duh! And this could also happen to you, and so I share.

We, the family, spent our Holy Weekend at Cannibad and had a blast exploring the coasts, taking pictures along the way. I borrowed from my Aunt the digital camera used, wanting to have copies of the said photos. It was a Sony Cyber-Shot DSC-T3.

So here was the glitch...

When the the digital camera was connected to the computer through its cable, the Memory Stick appears in My Computer. But it only contains a Notepad- Bootex file and DCIM and MISC files which just prompts a DOS environment everytime I click on them. After I tried it on my Acer mini-laptop, it does the same...

I even tried downloading some softwares which still did not work...

My Aunt also sent her Compaq laptop to me because the thing does not connect properly to the Internet. I tried the same process with the digicam and there I saw, faint figures of DCIM and other folders.

So that was it! There really wasn't any problem. Just that the folders are hidden and my computer and laptop was not set to show hidden files. Hehehe

Well, this might also happen to others, and it might even happen to you.
:)

What's in a Name

2009-04-13T09:26:00.003+08:00

Your name may be your pride or it can be a source of embarrassment...

Either way, changing names is not a very viable option for everybody in the Philippines. You can get everybody close to you to call you by your nickname which is, for you, better sounding than your real name. But legally, you're almost stuck. You also get the option to file something in the courts to have your name changed, that is, if it really is that awfully demeaning or you have become popular by that name (first names only). But you should check first with the constitution, so as not to waste precious effort and money. MOney, yes, if you don't have any, you'd be damned for life if your name really stinks!

I've been seeing a lot of this, and thought I could try...

The first result I got for my full first name is...

You Are Gracious and Amicable

You are friendly, charming, and warm. You get along with almost everyone.

You work hard not to rock the boat. Your easy going attitude brings people together.

At times, you can be a little flaky and irresponsible. But for the important things, you pull it together.

You are relaxed, chill, and very likely to go with the flow.

You are light hearted and accepting. You don't get worked up easily.

Well adjusted and incredibly happy, many people wonder what your secret to life is.

You are very hyper. You never slow down, even when it's killing you.

You're the type of person who can be a workaholic during the day... and still have the energy to party all night.

Your energy is definitely a magnet for those around you. People are addicted to your vibe.

You tend to be pretty tightly wound. It's easy to get you excited... which can be a good or bad thing.

You have a lot of enthusiasm, but it fades rather quickly. You don't stick with any one thing for very long.

You have the drive to accomplish a lot in a short amount of time. Your biggest problem is making sure you finish the projects you start.

You are deeply philosophical and thoughtful. You tend to analyze every aspect of your life.

You are intuitive, brilliant, and quite introverted. You value your time alone.

Often times, you are grumpy with other people. You don't appreciate them trying to interfere in your affairs.

You are wild, crazy, and a huge rebel. You're always up to something.

You have a ton of energy, and most people can't handle you. You're very intense.

You definitely are a handful, and you're likely to get in trouble. But your kind of trouble is a lot of fun.

You are usually the best at everything ... you strive for perfection.

You are confident, authoritative, and aggressive.

You have the classic "Type A" personality.

You are very open. You communicate well, and you connect with other people easily.

You are a naturally creative person. Ideas just flow from your mind.

A true chameleon, you are many things at different points in your life. You are very adaptable.

What's Your Name's Hidden Meaning?

For elvie...

You Are Gracious and Amicable

What's Your Name's Hidden Meaning?

For Grace...

You Are Intelligent and Contemplative

You are deeply philosophical and thoughtful. You tend to analyze every aspect of your life.

You are intuitive, brilliant, and quite introverted. You value your time alone.

Often times, you are grumpy with other people. You don't appreciate them trying to interfere in your affairs.

You are wild, crazy, and a huge rebel. You're always up to something.

You have a ton of energy, and most people can't handle you. You're very intense.

You definitely are a handful, and you're likely to get in trouble. But your kind of trouble is a lot of fun.

You are usually the best at everything ... you strive for perfection.

You are confident, authoritative, and aggressive.

You have the classic "Type A" personality.

You are very open. You communicate well, and you connect with other people easily.

You are a naturally creative person. Ideas just flow from your mind.

A true chameleon, you are many things at different points in your life. You are very adaptable.

You are friendly, charming, and warm. You get along with almost everyone.

You work hard not to rock the boat. Your easy going attitude brings people together.

At times, you can be a little flaky and irresponsible. But for the important things, you pull it together.

What's Your Name's Hidden Meaning?

And for my nickname, Aweng...

You Are Bold and Fearless

You are usually the best at everything ... you strive for perfection.

You are confident, authoritative, and aggressive.

You have the classic "Type A" personality.

You are very charming... dangerously so. You have the potential to break a lot of hearts.

You know how what you want, how to get it, and that you will get it.

You have the power to rule the world. Let's hope you're a benevolent dictator!

You are friendly, charming, and warm. You get along with almost everyone.

You work hard not to rock the boat. Your easy going attitude brings people together.

At times, you can be a little flaky and irresponsible. But for the important things, you pull it together.

You are very intuitive and wise. You understand the world better than most people.

You also have a very active imagination. You often get carried away with your thoughts.

You are prone to a little paranoia and jealousy. You sometimes go overboard in interpreting signals.

You are deeply philosophical and thoughtful. You tend to analyze every aspect of your life.

You are intuitive, brilliant, and quite introverted. You value your time alone.

Often times, you are grumpy with other people. You don't appreciate them trying to interfere in your affairs.

What's Your Name's Hidden Meaning?

In Loving Memory of Lazaro Pineda Bueza Sr.

2009-04-02T12:59:00.009+08:00

It's been over a week now, since my tatay's burial. And today was the last of the "PaSyam". These past weeks have been a whirlwind of events. After my backpacking trip throughout Mati to Tagum, an uneventful accident happened. I went home with a bruised and swelling face, and a few hours after my arrival, tatay died.

Throughout the "lamay", many memorable occurrences still poured in. But these episodes paled in comparison to the death of my dear tatay. I'm turning 25 and this marks the first death among the people that are close to me, friends and family.

I was asked to write the Eulogy of tatay. And that time, while writing, was one of the most emotional hours of my life.

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Behind that domineering figure is a loving father, grandfather, brother and friend to all of us. Lazaro Pineda Bueza Sr., adoringly known as Tatay Zaro is a tatay in every sense of the word. Though he was known to be a great disciplinarian, his fatherly ways earned him more endearment than fear. And as grandchildren and great grandchildren came, he became the magic and mischief that that made each childhood as memorable. I'm sure each one of you here today has some good memories on ho0w our Tatay has touched your life.

In the family, Tatay was the pillar of righteousness, wisdom and strength. No words could ever give justice to the totality of what he overcame in his lifetime. A God-fearing man, he has imparted a good sense of religiousity to each member of the family. A wise man, he brought up some of the world's greatest fathers and mothers. A strong man, he fought hard to survive the claws of death. From his hospitalization, to becoming bed-ridden; he endured all these to lessen the blow of his loss... To not let his loved ones hurt as much. But still, we grieve for we lost one great man...

One great Tatay.

May the legacy of Tatay live through each one of you here, sharing his last moments now. Who we are and what you see today was a prosuct of his love and hardwork. Wherever he is, I'm sure he is happy and contented as he left us knowing we are loved.

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I have also recorded a song, my nasal (trying hard not to cry on certain points) version of Paglisan. Nothing fancy pero gikan sa kasing-kasing, para kay Tatay...

Paglisan by Aweng.wav -

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Happy 77th BIrthday Tatay

Cruel

Movie Rotation and K800i File Retrieval

2009-03-18T13:06:00.005+08:00

The title tells what I have learned today. :)

A graduate of Information Technology, I readily tell people that I am not much of a techie. PC troubleshooting, programming and even web development... I do not have much say. Ironic, yes. But I am a proud fast-learner and I usually find my way through issues. :)

Today, I was uploading videos I got through my k800i to youtube and noticed one video askew. The scenes where in horizontal. So I got to work and did research, the first page I landed on was PapaJohn's Newsletter #71, which involved the use of VirtualDub 1.6.0. Trying out the software with the Movie Maker on, I had a hard time figuring out how to "apply rotate2 filer". Got back to researching, and found my way to the official site of Microsoft Windows Media. And I got my answer and it only required using the Movie Maker. :)

1. Import video file.

2. Once diplayed, drag and drop it into the timeline.

3. From the menu, choose Video Effects. Scroll down from the Video Effects options and choose Rotate 90 to the make the horizontal scenes turn vertical and Rotate 270 to twist to the left. Again drag and drop the Rotate 90 or 270 Video Effect onto the timeline (where the movie is).

4. Then Save Movie File.

And here's the uprighted video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pjAuaWtWKwY

:D

Then while I was working further with the downloads, I discovered I am missing one video and this was the one with my daughter singing the Greatest Love of All with the rest of the pupils comprising the Graduation- Commencement Exercises.

Sucked big time.

Got me researching again and from Scour results, I have found many posts with issues like mine. A good number of people have already posted concerns about retrieving accidentally deleted k800i data. But most issues raised were dead ends, with nobody with the know to lead them to the right answer.

Further down from the top results, I found EASEUS Data Recovery Wizard Professional 4.3.6

I tried out the free version and walla... there goes my video file on the screen. Clicking Next button prompted a message telling me to buy the full version which costs $89.95. Bull! I can't afford it. And even if I had that much in my PayPal account, that's too much to pay!

Well, at least I found myself the solution and hopefully others who can afford could use this info. :)

There are also other data retrieval software available which does not cost much, you can also try them out provided that you have your k800i phones connected to your PC and is in File Transfer mode. Just retrieve files on the partition of the disk.

:D Will still be searching for a software which hopefully I could get for free. ;)

Reminising

2009-03-16T13:43:00.005+08:00

Caught myself thinking about the old days

I've come a long, long way.

Changed.

Now, I am not as pissed about the greater glories of life. Well, these things were what I thought would make my life a lot better. But when you take time and really think about it, having them would still be nice but they're things that I could live "happily" without (for now).

Just last year, and the previous ones, things never seem to fail to frustrate me. Every person, every event, every place.. seemed to suck. Those "dreams" that I set made most everything an object of discontent.

Think
Thoughts
Think
Thoughts
Think...

Again, just like always, realization hit. And again, it was just me and my impatient ways!

Yes, impatience sucks the fun out of life.

Not having a car,
Not having your own house,
Not having millions to spend,
Not landing with the job I love,

And yet again, I see God's hand at work.

Can't we not wait? We can. And while you're at it, why don't you make it as enjoyable as possible? :)

Just some thoughts...

And there's this new show on TV, I don't really watch it. ehehe. But I just love their ad, saying, "Take life one dare at a time".

Francis M. - Dead!

2009-03-06T13:58:00.004+08:00

After years of bravely fighting Leukemia, I just heard from a News Flash that Francis Magallona has died. Searching through the Internet for more News, I found none. None yet anyway.

Francis M. was among the greatest Pinoy rappers of all time who has proven to be more than just a musician but a true blue artist and advocate of many things that he believes in. His songs speak of nationalism, life and love; in upbeats. He was also made famous by his literal 'baby' face.

I was not really planning on writing a post today, but somehow, hearing the news prompted me to do so. It's not just the 'death'. It's about this amazing person that I have come to know, growing up watching Eat Bulaga. :) The fun, music and just everything about Francis M. that brought forth new meanings to important words will live on. A rightful legacy...

Here's a video I would like to share. It's one of his songs which has become an all-time favorite...

Kaleidoscope - Francis M. w/ Parokya Ni Edgar

Unfortunately the original MUsic Video does not allow embed option, but if you still want to view, see it HERE.

Cruel

2009-02-05T01:20:00.003+08:00

The days after the New Year passed by in a blurry whirl, intoxicating... deathly

Death. Yes, death.

"Life doesn't give a flying f*ck. It tortures whoever she lays her
eyes upon. And whatever hell comes your way, quit bitchin'. That's life!"
~Aweng, Life's a Bitch, the Human Race a Whore, Death is?

It's been long time.

Torturous..

Arriving home from an extended New Year celebration, I was welcomed with the news that my Tatay was rushed to the hospital due to a stroke.

It has been almost a month now.. And he has yet to come awake or is this 'our' presumption?

After some days, my mama told me that the family was already meeting. Doc said my Tatay was a 50-50 case and was offering the choice to unplug the machines or let him be.

Aweng, sentimental and often half-crazed, found herself talking to herself...
Which is crueler? Death or Life?

And she came up with an answer...
Aweng is the cruelest.

I found myself praying for my Tatay to die. This, I thought was the best.

But then, my Tatay was transferred from Davao Doctors' Hospital to DMC. And one day, I got the chance to go and visit. I saw him for the first time. Bed-ridden, in a sleep in which he's been for days after the stroke. My heart was crushed... as if my throat was closing in... while fighting the tears, my Aunt- Te Helen came in and talked to Tatay. Miraculously, my Tatay seemed to respond. Nanay came in... caressing his arms, talking to him, soothing him, telling him to get well so he could get back home.

Home...

The machines that was thought keeping him alive was soon gotten rid of... one by one... and by the time his fever subsided, he was off to get back to his own house made lively and irritating at the same time by the lot of his noisy great grand children.

It's been more than a week that he is home. His condition, which I find rare, has paralyzed half of his body and that's from the waist up. He can't see. He's fed through his nose. He's being nursed by Nanay 24/7 with the aid of the rest of the family.

But he can hear... and nobody knows if he comprehends what he hears...

It was cruel to have given up on him.

He must have loved each and everyone of us that much to have that unsurpassed strength and willpower to overstep death.

And be with us... until his body gives up on him.

Love you tay...

Blur

2009-02-05T01:10:00.002+08:00

Options,
Alternatives,
Choices,

Life,
Love,
Happiness,
Responsibilities,
Family,

ME...

I'm no Britney Spears but I am on a Crossroad..

Wow... What a lame intro. But it made me smile...

Hormones?
Mental Degradation?

"When I feel heavy metal"
~Blur

Flashback on the Holidays II: Welcoming 2009 and Days after the New Year

2009-01-09T21:47:00.008+08:00

Every last day of the year, I make it a point to enjoy some changes. Its not about anything superstitious, its simply fun and what better time to do them than the turning of a New Year? Of course, the holiday promotions are great opportunities to take advantage of. Don't you think?

Had my nails done in hot metallic blue (as chosen by pretty Lian). I also had Lian's hair treated, due to the insistence of the hairdresser. :) My purplish red hair costed me lessthan 50 pesos. Hahaha. Just bought some cheap hair at the supermarket and wallah!

While killing boredom, I enjoyed some time with my hubby-- tailing along while he was doing some errand. Now how exciting is that? Hahaha. We got his pop a bottle of Fundador. Cruised through the northern parts of the city to buy toothbrushes. ; p And got home to continue our quest with killing time to await the coming of 2009.

One of the things I try not to forget to bring along when spending some time at my in-law's is a book. Sleeping Murder by Agatha Christie got me through several great minutes of just lounging around enjoying the read while lavishing on the fresh night air.

I have long since wanted to learn the art of make up but have failed miserably... at trying that is. This is me after another failed attempt, hehehe...

Had to erase the stuff coz I looked quite comic with them on.

This was how we spent the days after the New Year, with our last stop at the mall to watch iSkul Bukol...

Flashback on the Holidays II: A mid-Holiday Celebration

2009-01-09T21:43:00.008+08:00

December 28, 2009 marked the celebration of the Jina's birthday as well as Vaugn's christening. Even with a blurry head, having slept little, me and the kids off to a great start, attending the 9 o'clock mass at the church in GSIS. We went there together with Ate Inday and her children, DinDin and Raffy.

By the time we got home, everything was ready: food, tables and chairs and the videoke setup. But the celebrants and the guests have not yet arrived. Taking advantage of the sound system, my pogi--Dylan got himself busy with the music system.

Another mark of improvement in my pretty girl's self esteem got me really glad. She now sings even with guests around. :D But the problem is, it needs to be a duet. But I think, gradual improvements make achievements so much sweeter. I await the day when she makes my cry tears of pride. Love you babies. ;)

Flashback on the Holidays I: Dates with Hubby Jonathan Basco and Isis Lahora

2009-01-06T14:48:00.009+08:00

Things and events that I have not covered yet...

From way back the 20th of December, hubby and I attended his office's Christmas Party. Everything went cool until, by the end of the party, two of his office mates ended the night with a fight. :)

Nevertheless, the night was ok. With hubby, Jojo, 'bagging' two bags from the yearly raffle. Not bad (last year he got an umbrella.. eh.. eh.. eh). From his manito, he received a set of pillow cases and bed sheet.

After Christmas, I also got the chance to see Isis and enjoy exchanging gifts with her. I got a parfum concentrate, and I got her a polo shirt of cool green and pink stripes. :) Because my kid was not quite in good condition that night, I had to cut the event short and went home by 11.

The Reggae bands featured at Taboan, MTS that night included the one with which another former officemate-Jason was a part of. The music was really good, matched by an energetic and participative crowd. See Isis's site for a short clip of the band.

BTW, the latter two photos, I got from Isis's website. Salamat (miski wala nananghid) hehehe

Kay Sigla ng Gabi..

2008-12-26T12:06:00.012+08:00

Dec. 24, 2008 had been a full day. A lot of tasks got me busy even through the days before the Noche Buena.

It's not every year that I get to take part in the Christmas rush especially never before have I braved going with the crowd on the actual day. And that day, I got the chance to come aboard and feel the rush... of anticipation not only of the celebration but of getting past the counter. :) What I bought? Barbecue sticks, marshmallows, and Purefoods Tender Juicy hotdogs... Hahaha. Two birds with one stone. Yes, I got my humble share of dish for the rest to enjoy on the Noche Buena table and I also got to vote for Allysa in the Amazing Kids Photo Contest. :)

After hours in the hustle and bustle, I got home wet from the rain (even if I had an umbrella). Crammed with finishing things up: wrapping gifts, tidying our place a little, helping with the preparations upstairs, preparing my kids' things for the party, and just getting everything ready before me, my hubby and kids went to my in-laws' place.

Hubby, Jonathan Basco, and Dylan went to SM for another round of Christmas rush. Thankfully, my Lian was still taking her afternoon nap, giving me an excuse not scramble to get ready. By the time she woke up, everything was ready but us. So we got on with out girlie rituals and got to my already impatient boys.. :)

After a good time spent on hailing a cab, we finally got to Bajada and joined my in-laws to attend mass. Peace and love... that was the theme of the preachings and of course how the holidays came about. By the time we were back at Bajada, it was already past 9.. my sisters and mama were already texting...

Like every other Filipino family, this time has become a traditional get-together for the Bueza clan. And through the years, the younger generation of the family has been trying to think of ways to make the celebration as lively. On the night of the Noche Buena--the night welcoming the coming Christmas Day, we had a costume party...

The favorite "handa" of Filipinos according to the SWS survey is none other than the "Lechon" (roasted whole pig)...

It is indeed a favorite which also goes with my family. See the a photo taken with the lechon before we arrived..

And the pictures below was what was left of it when we arrived.

Merry Christmas everyone... hope you have a blast this coming New Year.. (not literally) hohoho...

Happy 77th BIrthday Tatay

2008-12-19T12:20:00.008+08:00

December 17, 1931 marked the birth of the domineering figure we now know today as our dear Tatay.

Lazaro Bueza Sr. was known by his sons and daughters to be a great disciplinarian. But unlike many past stories of such fathers, he was well-loved as he was as caring as he was strict. And to his grand children and great grand children, he's the best Tatay.

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Trip to the Hill: Matina and Beyond

2008-12-17T15:13:00.006+08:00

Looking back...

Last December 6, me and my family had another sight-seeing trip, we visited a quaint subdivision, way up Matina Shrine.

Enjoy the photos.. as we've enjoyed the trip..

The first set of photos were taken from Dencio's at Hilltop and beyond... Have never wandered further before and I never knew the views were amazing.. until then.

Crossing Diversion Road, we went through the array of TV networks along Shrine Hills..

I've had my K800i for over a year now.. But I have not actually taken the time to give credit to its CyberShot feature..

Great services/products will never be overlooked and sooner or later, the product itself will serve as the greatest advertising tool. Sony Ericsson rocks!

I've already taken tens of hundreds of photos, still and moving. And the results amaze me.. :) Salamat Cybershot!

We also went to visit my Ate Yang's currently-under-renovation place in Puan but I was left in the multicab to look over Sleeping Beauty..

We also went to a new subdivision in Toril and took a good look at the area.. If I had the money, I would have gotten a spot.. See how beautiful the houses were.. An epitomy of mini-luxuries

More blast from the past to come... (meaning: late posts hehehe)

Amazing Kids Photo Contest!

2008-12-15T16:05:00.006+08:00

Hello People,

If you get the chance to go have your grocery at the NCCC Mall of Davao, PLEASE take time and Vote for Lian-- Allysa Beyonce M. Basco

She is a finalist in the Amazing Kids Photo Contest.

Every P150 purchase of Pure Foods cornbeef and Tender Juicy hotdogs entitles you to 1 vote.

Grab those PURE FOODS cornbeef and TJ hotdogs amounting to P150. To vote, present receipt at the PROMO AREA (fronting Post Office, beside Red Ribbbon).

It's that easy.. To get you familiar with where the Promotion Area is, I've uploaded a couple of photos..

As Much As

2008-12-10T20:17:00.002+08:00

Though still stress-stricken, manifested by stomach cramps and headaches (due to gastritis and my migraine), I have come a long way from the depths of darkness that I have let myself fall into.

Sorry seems to be the hardest word...

A cliche that once ruled over my whole being.

It's quite pathetic actually when I think about how strong some people see me when I can't even get myself to say Sorry.

That was then.

:)

I'm glad that I have proved myself worthy to be considered Strong. This has been a fact that I always knew.. That saying this five-letter word in the sincerest manner takes...

as much courage as...

confronting others that have done you wrong.

Though pride and a pack of devils gnaw at my consciousness, I have done it.

I HAVE DONE IT!

How to Avoid Self Sabotage

2008-12-09T09:30:00.002+08:00

Looking for ways to make yourself feel better when you are down could be a great escape when facing one of any hardships life has to offer. Many things are easier said than done. But if you really want to be out of the rut that bad, then have got to do what you have to do.

I have never been as jolly a person as some may seem but I also am I not a big fan of depression.

Found this at BestManagementArticles.com.. Here goes:
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by: Drew Stevens PhD

With the conclusion of the year, holiday stress, and economic pendulum swings, it is very easy to self-sabotage. Statistics prove that internal stress is the key factor in self-sabotage. More important, we sabotage because we focus on negative aspects; we focus on failure. Research shows that individuals have a fear of failure, but too often the real problem is fear of success. Failure is a manifestation of looking at the past. Our success lies in the future. Self-sabotage is really a form of denial. It also brings up the question of what is versus what can be. To avoid sabotage you must respect YOU and you must view the future. You must learn to love yourself.

Are you going to allow the negative self-talk or are you going to build a better future, brick by brick? There are seven vital techniques to avert sabotage.

1. Self-Talk - Terminate the negative self-talk. Negative behavior and talk stimulates depression and anxiety. You must look in the mirror; understand the positive aspects you provide. Create positive speak, avoid negative terminology, and change your body mechanics. Smile at others and smile at yourself.

2. Failure - Simply avoid it. Do the things you hate to do first. Sabotage stems from individuals believing they will fail if they attempt something uncomfortable. Not true. Failure is learning, creativity, and innovation. Some of our famous ancestors failed and created great things. King, Lincoln, Bell, and others believed they failed, only to have their dreams come true. Stop worrying about failure; it is the best education. However, in order to fail you must confront it head on and remove yourself from the comfort zone. Stop procrastinating today!

3. Positive People - Depression and anxiety manifest when we gather with other negative people. Avert disaster by moving away from those that depress you. Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill discusses the power of the Mastermind, small groups that share similar desires educating each other. Move away from those that anger you and befriend those that awaken your dreams, incite your desires, and expose your creativity.

4. Passion - Conviction and love is movement. Passion ignites the mind and the soul. Self-sabotage arrives when you work at a job. Life is too short for employment with organizations that treat you as a liability. Moreover, working for something that you abhor makes you remorseful. Find opportunities that ignite your spirit and provide a sense of purpose.

5. Self-Esteem/Confidence - Self-sabotage requires the elimination of limiting beliefs. What is a limiting belief? Limiting beliefs are those things you believe that place limitations on your abilities. Such beliefs are true and others false, but we use them as a brake to deter us from making what appears impossible, possible. For example, many individuals state, “I do not have proper experience—I will not get the job I want.” Alternatively, others state “I do not have any luck—I will never meet the decision maker.”

The level of experience might be true. Your level of experience and skill might hinder certain jobs but if you do not apply, you do not get the job! If you desire luck, try sitting in a gambling hall. Luck does not create opportunities; experience, aggression, and focus get the decision maker.

Our mind creates limitations from things we experience and habits we form. You must reset your internal GPS to determination, then you set you mind to accomplish anything you desire. Don't believe it? Determination ended a bloody Civil War, brought a man to the moon and gave us our first African American president! Confidence begins with a belief in YOU!

6. Pleasure - The easiest method for ending self-sabotage is doing pleasurable things. Misery creates company, but pleasure manifests power. Take the time to do things you love to do: listen to music, read a book, take a walk. Scientists have proved that our mind requires rest. Thinking of negative issues and limiting beliefs creates energy and polarizes our thinking. Conducting pleasurable activities produces endorphins in the brain that relax the mind and decrease our breathing and heart rate.

7. Action - The difference between “fortunate” and insignificant individuals: they take action. Self-sabotage is embodied from habits. Detaching habits takes time: 21 days exactly. If you truly desire change then you must take actionable steps to eliminate your self-sabotage. Set timeframes that are reasonable.

Creating a toned and symmetrical body takes time and energy. You cannot go to the gymnasium once and expect a favorable result. Change takes time, effort, and, most important, discomfort. Get out of your comfort zone, indulge in (good) pain, and eradicate self-sabotage forever!

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Turmoil

2008-12-08T17:08:00.002+08:00

As stubborn as a mule...

I have failed many times and once again I have put myself in a situation that battered my being.

I am sick. I've always been and I've got to end the madness before it consumes and takes away the real core of Aweng.

I am glad to have a God. I could never have gotten past and up every fall. I know I have never been the best daughter to Him, and acknowledging Him in these times just shows how ungrateful I am. But again, as each time, I vow to be better.

I thank you Lord for giving me the courage now and I pray that I could muster as much as needed.

I deserve every inch that aches...

It has always been said that "KNOWING" could be a curse or a blessing.

Maybe it lies on how you accept it.

I choose to be blessed! I choose to be better! I choose to love and be loved! I choose not to hate!

I choose to see the good in others and I pray that they, too, see what lies within... behind every word... beyond every act...

Dr. Maggots by Gelai

2008-12-03T11:56:00.002+08:00

How would you like to have maggots crawling on your wound?

Creepy, right?

Unusual.. yes.

Effective?

See for yourself...

Read Dr. Maggots by Gelai..

Bleeding Love

2008-11-28T12:02:00.004+08:00

No I'm not bleeding love at all.. I just love this song. And Leona Lewis is pretty too. :)

I have been hearing this but the song really got to me when I heard a remix of it played while watching a dance contest. It was back when Lian and I had her photo taken.

Here's a video a got embedded with lyrics. Enjoy..

Just audio. The embed option for the video was disabled but you can watch it on YouTube if you wish..

Bleeding Love

Lyrics | Leona Lewis lyrics - Bleeding Love lyrics

It was also just recently that I knew about Leona Lewis. I read somewhere that the British star needs to spice up her image tending towards a sexier one to be a US hit. For me, either way, she's beautiful. And if she decides to go sexy, I think she has what it takes.. I could just imagine how hot she'll look.. Tsssss...

I have thought that the song was a revival because if the melodramatic nature of the lyrics.

:) But nevertheless everything about it is worth listening to..

Amazing Kids Photo Contest

2008-11-18T17:28:00.006+08:00

Last Saturday, Lian and I went to New Jersey Studio at the second level of the NCCC Mall. I have seen an ad on the Amazing Kids Photo Contest while buying grocery last week and bought some participating products to avail of a slot.

While waiting for her turn, we busied ourselves, browsing through the displays of the nearby furniture displays.. taking photos..

Lian in action, while having her photos taken:

Here are her photos:

I sure hope she gets picked.

:) Maybe this'll mark the start of my career as a stage mother. :))

How Bizarre

2008-11-14T23:57:00.004+08:00

As was mentioned in my previous post, Amazing Facts, I had been planning to create a blog about all things bizarre and unbelievable. Finally, after busy weeks, I was able to squeeze in some time to write the first post. I am working on this blog in collaboration with my pretty and multi-talented cousin, Gelai (born Angeli B. Galope)

Presenting:

"How Bizarre"

Lately, I have become an active Digger and one of the submissions there was what got me writing about the World's Youngest Mom.

Enjoy people!

Halloween Weekend: A Belated Post

2008-11-04T22:10:00.006+08:00

As with most posts, late napud... :)..

Anyways... When I was younger, Halloween was one of my favorite times of the year other than Christmas and my birthday.. :) Through those years, the Memorial Park along with the rest of Davao's cemeteries would seem to be having a fiesta. Our tent were among those that would be set up many days ahead to make sure we maximize the space surrounding the burial areas of our loved ones. We'd bring along booming sound systems care of Kuya Jojo, t.v, even videoke. And food was more than enough to fill leverybody up with the ususal All Soul's Day putahe: mechado, suman, sandwiches and more.. It has become a childhood tradition now vanished.. I miss those days...

October 31, 2008

Me and my kids with the rest of the usual gang tagged along while my mama and nanay went to Davao Memorial Park to check on the built tent. It was nearly 5 in the afternoon but the traffic seemed to be just like the normal late afternoon traffic flow with the exeption of the already closed-for-public-transport avenues.

Because the 31st was not declared a holiday, the cemetery was not as busy with most of the people probably stillb on their way home from school or the office.

Not much to do, but many stalls to buy from.. The aroma of barbeque, pizza, and the whole lot of food served near the chapel wafts through the fresh afternoon air.

After some time spent there, we headed to the still under costruction Davao Baywalk or SeaWall. Now, the site already has two paved entrances with many features inside undergoing expansion.

We spent sometime strolling along the paved roads where the strong waves of the Davao Gulf crashes. The replica of the Little Mermaid was moved from its former spot and now dominates the left most parts of the sea. Near the golden mermaid were cute dolphins seeming to want to dive back into the dark waters. Beyond was still a stretch of piled up boulders. I even heard some people talking speculating that the Baywalk might just be where the very much talked about bridge to connect Davao City and the Island Garden City of Samal begins. But the information was just probably that... hearsays.

We also got busy eating. Above (left) is a photo of my golden boy, Dylan munching on yellow corn. And of course, a visit to Sea Wall would not be complete without having to take a picture of David and his golden balls.. :)

We (Hubby Jologs and I) had plans that night to bring the kids to Davao Memorial but the weather was not as cooperative. As soon as we got dressed, rain started to pour and it went like that until Lian and Dylan were already in deep slumber.

November 1, 2008

We, the four-some, decided to go to Davao Memorial Park after having dinner. Everything started out pretty well. With only Tulip Drive as the nearest dislodging place, we had to walk some good distance to the cemetery. While walking, I took the first photo of the night.. and that was of me and Lian with her red, glowing horns. Along the way to the entrance, we bought candles, a match and lighted swords. By then, a light drizzle was already felt and soon after, rain again poured. We had to stay at the office where the majority of the CRs were. About an hour later, as the rain was slowly diminishing, I decided to just go along and light the candles but was unable to to past the flood with all the garbage going along with the high waters so I went to the chapel to let the candles burn while I said a silent prayer.

For a while, we spent several minutes at the huge tent built at the center of the intersection to serve as the Information Center. It also had a shake stall where we bought one each. We got busy freezing our brains while waiting for the rain to go away.. :)

We finally got out of the cemetery and headed to Whaw! Matina to enjoy another round of dinner before heading home.

One Helluv'an AMAZING Week: Touring Magandang Gensan

2008-11-04T17:30:00.010+08:00

Isis and I went back to Sleep Inn quite early to be able to take a good rest for the upcoming tour. But we didn't realize we nearly chatted the night away.

Anyways, please bear with the photos. Just got them through my cellphone.

Half-Day Tour and last day in Gensan
October 26, 2008
Itinerary:
Gensan Fishport, Sarangani Highlands, Pacquiao Residence

Isis got up earlier. While she was going on with her morning rituals, I stole some minutes to catch up with sleep. After her, I took another fast turn in the bathroom doing the essentials to get ready for the day. We got our things already packed before we got out of the Inn. Though the time was already 7, we had our breakfast at Jollibee. While at it, we were discussing our fall-back plan in case we don't make it at the tour. (Gathering time 7?!) Hehehe. We were thinking of just wandering around by ourselves.

We unhurriedly just went to Family Country Hotel to just check and was not expecting the group to still be there. Another surprise... they were.

First stop, Gensan Fish Port. We were held for a while at the entrance because the security were still checking with their superiors. Several times, many years back, the port was still open to the public and anyone wanting go through the site could.

Next stop... the breathtaking Sarangani Highlands. And I'm not just talking figurative here. Everything about the place from the beautifully manicured grounds, the exotic blooms, the designs, the themed facilities, and the views from atop down into the lush greeneries of the surrounding areas delicately fringed with the sparkling waters of Gensan.

Just for fun, see the photo at the right? Yes, a wonderful collection of fantabulous cacti. Now, spot the penis.

Hahaha.

No that was not a joke. There really is. Well, that according to someone who shared this interesting bit of info with us who were photographing the plants.

Third and last stop was the grand home of the world-famous boxer, Manny "Pacman" Pacquiao. Every corner of the house emanates with luxury. Though typical in design, every detail screams of money. Yes, from the concrete slab that you step upon to the sleek roofing. We toured only the outside, and the wow-factor was already high.. that leaves much work for the imagination what the interior could have looked like. The patio had an outdoor bar with the walls studded with Manny's winning photos in frame. A small swimming pool leads further into a garage/building where several expensive cars and motorcycles were parked. Each of us got one calendar featuring Manny and his family. The first person I thought of was my mother-in-law. I was sure she would have loved to hang the calendar in her home.

Before heading to the hotel, we were given the chance to buy tuna-licious pasalubong at Pacific Seas. I would have bought if I had extra but nada..

From there, one of the service vans offered to drop by Sleep Inn since many of us were staying there. Logged out and went to G-mall. :) We strolled for a while, looking for Isis's McDo and ended up with Spazio.

The ambiance and food were great and was amazingly inexpensive. So we each had a slice of sumptuous cake with our meals. Took several hours for us to dine with the free Wi-Fi. ;) And by 4pm, we were on the bus to Davao..

I was planning to nap the whole trip but small chitchats turned to longer talk and so Isis and I talked our way to Davao. :)

By 7pm, we dropped off at SM where I got Ice into a cab and I went straight into Jollibee where my kids and hubby awaits. They just watched Highschool Musical 3 which Lian and Dylan obviously enjoyed.

Great end for one helluv'an amazing week...

One Helluv'an AMAZING Week: Fellowship Dinner

2008-11-04T16:50:00.006+08:00

After having a fun time getting lost and with my stomach already growling, I set out to fill in my tummy and enjoy the night. I arrived just in time for dinner...

October 25, 2008
Fellowship Dinner
Family Country Hotel Garden
General Santos City

Yey.. Buffet.. But after having my plate and Isis' too, filled with food, Hubby Jologs was in his kulit mode again pissing me. The performances of a local dance troupe -- another batch of Gensan's pride, made up for the night's entertainment while people were busily enjoying their meals. The dance troupe would also be vying for recognition in a competition to be staged in Japan. Bongga!

A live band grooving to the sounds of the danceable eighties was later on jived with bloggers eager to sweat it off at the dance floor.

Another familiar face who I got to see at 2MBS was Borgee-- the brother of Caryl. Both are former officemates. Hehehe

Had several bottles of beer to end the night. Just to help doze off (Gamay lang kay dili sponsored hehehe) It was my first time to be drinking and dancing. And the booze kicked in really good.

One Helluv'an AMAZING Week: Alone in General Santos

2008-11-04T15:29:00.004+08:00

After the 2MBS, we (Isis, I and Darlyn) ought to have headed to where we were supposed to stay. But I separated ways with them to go to Gaisano Mall of Gensan. Though I also wanted to see what the mall was like, the main reason for going there was to buy an adaptor.

Typically Gaisano... Yes, most everything about its interior from the flooring, stairs and others is reminiscent of the old Gaisano buildings in Davao. I even had the urge to peek at their City Walk area wondering if they too have this shop that sells from realistic gun-toys to naughty crinkets and sex parafernalias. :) Wala.. Hehehe

I also bought myself another headband and 2 pairs of great-finds.. earings.

At our room, Isis and I freshened up. I took a quick shower and dressed. On our way back to the Family Country Hotel for the Sashimi Night Cocktails, I remembered that my ID was not with me. Alone again, I dropped off to take another tricycle which is the main mode of transportation in Gensan.

The tricycle already had two people in it so it had to go into the residential streets. I was reminding the driver now and then where I needed to be brought to. It was lightly raining and I was not accustomed to the avenues. Because the ride was quite getting too long, I got off where I thought Sleep Inn would be. I heard from someone that it was near a Chicken House and Jollibee. And... the inn was not to be found..

Surprise.. Surprise..

Hehehe.

I asked around but the first two people amazingly did not know where M avenue was not even the street we were currently on. :) Dayo. Then I found someone to point me to the right direction.

And here was the reason why I missed the Sashimi Night Cocktails.. Kasuya.. And the funny thing was, IDs were not necessarily checked.. The experience though was Lingaw. ;)

One Helluv'an AMAZING Week: 2MBS

2008-10-30T14:56:00.015+08:00

Magandang GenSan... Was the sing-song cheerful greeting popularized by its people who warmly welcomed each and every visiting blogger from all over Mindanao. And indeed, GenSan is...

Even with the rain pouring down from the time that the event started until late afternoon, the Second MBS went through... with flying colors. :D

2nd Mindanao Bloggers Summit
Mindanawon, Paminawon Intawon:
Blogging the Mindanao Consciousness
October 25, 2008
Family Country Hotel and Convention Center
General Santos City

Too bad I was not able to have my e-pass printed.. I could have won in the raffle but anyways, just being there already made me feel like a million bucks. Char! Hahaha...

Seriously... we were among the first groups to have arrived. While the registration was going on, a couple of power interruptions were experienced. But even with the lights off, we still enjoyed picture taking..

I would not also have received the goodie bag distributed to the first 100 participants, salamat Sir Avel for the kind consideration. :D

Here are photos taken of me and Ice with Sir Avel, Blogie Robillo, and Ms. GenSan Ivy Cunanan.

After the opening and formalities, Pierre Tito Galla shared his thoughts on many issues surrounding Mindanao. Popularly known as Jester, most people would have thought of him odd. The first exchange with him was when he asked if it was ok to share the table. First impression? Weird guy. :) But he was rightfully fit to have been chosen to open the discussions as his thought provoking messages yet lively presence left the crowd energetic and wanting more.

The rest of the speakers to complete the summit composed of: Walter Balane, Hector P. Miñoza, Aileen Apolo, Ria Jose, and Bobby Timonera.

Though I had some articles to finish which thanks to the free Wi-Fi sponsored by Globe was submitted that day, I was still able to catch great thoughts throughout the discussions.

Being a lover of still life, the photoblogging part got me really interested. The speaker Mr Timonera started off with his previous career as a photojournalist of one of the most prestigious newspapers nationally distributed throughout the Philippines and eventually into his website and what he does now. The photos in his presentation were really amazing. :)

And a line about photography from him: "It's not anout the high tech, long zoom range. It's about shooting between the ear."

Giveaways were given every now and then. From Google Ph stuffs, to umbrellas from Forest Lake, to bags from Globe and a whole lot more.

And by late afternoon, Shout-Outs from bloggers from various places in Mindanao spoke about their niches. With the last from Sir Avel in a standing ovation :)

Kudos to everybody who made the second Mindanao Bloggers ' Summit a success, especially to Sir Avel.
To the office of the Mayor and the sponsors here's another round of applause..

And we were off to enjoy our free time...

Some videos:

Lunch time..

and of Mr. Bobby Timonera..

One Helluv'an AMAZING Week: Arriving at the Tuna Capital of the Philippines... General Santos

2008-10-30T12:24:00.006+08:00

October 25, 2008
From Davao City to General Santos City

Half an hour before the clock struck 4 am, I was up and about doing the essentials. I already took a a good long shower the night before to be able to extend sleep which I really needed.. :) My hubby borrowed my pa-n' law's jeepney to get me to the Ecoland Terminal. We stopped over Victoria Plaza to fetch Isis.

At the terminal, we met up with Dante and his wifey.

After settling at our seats in a Non-Stop GenSan routed, air-conditioned bus; our travels begun. As we went, we chatted for several minutes. Throughout the trip, I dozed off every now and then.

Past seven, we dropped off of the bus at Gaisano Mall of GenSan where we took our ride from an unusually built tricycle with its very low seats. :)

Upon arrival, we took photos. The following were taken from Aice's sleek Canon digital camera:

Upon entering the venue, we were warmly welcomed by GenSan bloggers Mikko and Aethan>> hope got that spelled right. :) Both even accompanied us at the Hotel's reception area to inquire for available rooms.

One Helluv'an AMAZING Week: A Day After Hubby's Burthday and Before MBS2

2008-10-30T00:07:00.006+08:00

By eight in the morning, we logged out f the Border's Inn and headed to Jollibee. :p I would have wanted something local in Tagum but my Hubby Jologs discouraged having meals at local eateries. He has not still gotten over the amoebiasis that he acquired from doing so. I don't think eating out though was not safe. He just got unlucky that day.

After filling up our tummies, we headed to their (his and his coworkers') boarding house to leave the van. We had to stop at Panabo to do some work. The photo above was taken in the deteriorating park of Panabo City with the old buildings still under renovation. Then to the Terminal.

Isis and I ought to see each other at the Ecoland Terminal by 1pm. We had to rearrange the schedule again and again until we made up our minds to see each other instead at 4am for our trip to General Santos.

Arriving at the Davao Terminal, Hubby and I flagged the first jeepney going to SM. Had a hearty meal at Rai Rai Ken. The food was great even with its cost. The service was not as attentive though specially when you have already finished ordering, trying to call the attention of anyone can be difficult. And you still had to wait a good deal of time too before you could eat.

And because it was my Hubby's birthday... I got myself an Acer One. Hahaha

Just kidding.

I have long since planned to have a mobile device that I could use for my freelancing work. So that I could work even if I have something to attend to. :D And my husband urged me to take one right then and there since we were already browsing through the computer stores. No I did not have the money but as always, credit card comes in handy. I charged the cost to my credit line with a payment term of 12 months installment.

And I also forgot to mention that I also got the SmartBro portable modem. Since only two providers sell one of these thingies, I had to go for Smart with the wider Network Coverage they have which is vital as the modem utilizes 3G signal.

Arriving home, we again packed the kids' things for their weekend at my in-laws place in Bajada.

One Helluv'an AMAZING Week: Happy Birthday Jojo

2008-10-29T14:07:00.007+08:00

Coming home from Makro, I immediately packed my things as well as the kids'. Lian and Dylan spent the night at my cousin Gelli's house whom I thought would not agree on adopting both :) I arrived at Tagum City terminal around eight o'clock...

October 23, 2008
Tagum City

I have had many travels in the past but it was the first time that I had to go and commute to some 'not-so-familiar' place all by myself. Well I've done it when I went to Samal earlier the year but that was just like minutes away and I am already quite acquainted to the place.

By the time I arrived, it was past dinner time so we, my husband who I often dearly refer to as Hubby Jologs and I, went to have barbeque. The barbeque place was a humbler version of Malativaas but the smoking stalls were uniquely in array occupying an entire street. There was also a branch of McDonalds nearby. We went in to use the comfort room as well as buy ourselves dessert but as of eight thirty, they're already out of stock. Amazing? :)

After dinner, since the City Hill was just steps away, we wandered around. At the rear of the building were a vast recreation and event area with a stage. Teens, couples and average workers winding up dot the surrounding area. Lamp posts shaped in butterflies flanked the place. One eye-catching feature is a fountain simply churning out streams of water highlighted by colorful lights which was a popular playing/bathing site for children by day.

I was really excited to get to immerse myself in the city's nightlife. Though not as vibrant with that of Davao's every place that we've visited were interesting. The Golden City is like a complex of establishments. Though many of the businesses were closed by that time, the atmosphere was made lively by the live band playing at the inner area. (I'm not good at remembering names actually so please bear with me.) The tables within were amply spaced making it not as crowded even if all the tables were filled. The band that time was ok, well not as impressive to my taste. But unluckily they did not serve beers if not taken by buckets. So off we went as I was planning to roam around and get to experience several nightspots. Also in the Golden City were the disco, bowling alley, etc.

While having dinner, we were discussing where to go. He mentioned the places that he and his buddy agents go to to have some good time. He suggested that we go to karaoke bars since I loved to sing. Not far from the Golden City was the Dip SHot. The subtitle really got my attention.. 'Family and Resto Bar' as I've known Family KTV's but not Family Resto Bars. Or am I just not as exposed to these night places?

Inside, the palce was small as well as the stage you'd really feel the performance as while singing, you'll get to enjoy lighting effects and even some drama brought by stage smoke (solid ice). :)

This second bar is another branch of the first from where we had just spent time. The resto-bar was far more spacious than that of the first but the stage had less effects.

After enjoying some good rounds of beer and songs, we decided to call it a night. We headed to the Border's Inn , one of those drive-in motels. Typically, the room came with all those mirrors, and of course, hot shower. And another atypical thing was a copy of The Holy Bible set on top of one of the table-drawers. :) Well, its a common thing to find this kind of a book at any lodging establishment. But for most of the the kind that are obviously meant to serve as sex havens, if there ever was a bible, it would not be as visible as that. No blasphemous message intended. It was just one of those unusual things...

One Helluv'an AMAZING Week: Lian's Field Trip

2008-10-29T11:05:00.015+08:00

Here are photos of my daughter's Field Trip. Because I too, have several out-of-town plans, I have had to leave it to my sister Vessie to accompany Lian throughout the trip.

October 23, 2008
Field Trip of Kinder I and II pupils of Matina Baptist Child Care and Learning Center
Stops: Philippine Eagle in Malagos and Forest Hill Resort

The day before the trip, I took Lian to NCCC Mall after fetching her from class. We went there to buy new jogging pants as the pupils were required to be in P.E. uniform.

The duo, my sister Vessie and my pretty Lian, left home by eight in the morning to meet up with the group gathered at school. Also there were my cousin Charisse Jade Bueza in Kinder I and my uncle Jojo (Lazaro Bueza Jr.) And the pictures tell it all...

See ^^ Lian won a prize. Hahaha. I felt really good knowing that she participated in some game and bagged a piece of small chocolate bar. She has this issues with mingling with other kids and I'm glad she's slowly overcoming that.

About 3 in the afternoon, me, my mom, cousin Gelli, niece Brylle and Nanay went to Forest Hill to fetch them. My pogi was crying because he also wanted to take a splash but we were not supposed to make use of the pool since we did not pay, telling the guard we were just there to fetch my kid. But still, my indulgent Mama Tit's sent her apos to the pool without paying. Hahaha. Grandparents are truly great spoilers, aren't they?

From there we headed to Makro. We were using the new Adventure of my Aunt, Te Helen, and so we were invited to some exhibit room of Aowa in the possible reason that the people there must've thought we were rich. Hahaha. I was even chosen to be one of the "lucky" product endorsers. But to be so, you would have to purchase something and the cheapest they have costed like 37K. DUH!? Hehehe. Out we went and into Makro to buy things.

Back home past 4 so I just have like less than a couple of hours to pack and head to Tagum. See next post ;)

One Helluv'an AMAZING Week: DigitalFilipino.com Club and Bloggers Davao Networking Event

2008-10-28T17:55:00.007+08:00

I have written in my earlier post that the 2nd Mindanao Bloggers' Summit will be the first ever event hosted by an online community that I 'will be' attending. But days after the post, logging into my YM account led me to a linked status message pointing to another post about this event. And the rest was glorious history...

October 21, 2008
Pantawan Hall, Grand Regal Hotel
Lanang, Davao City

Glorious indeed. I consider myself very lucky to have gone to that event, making it my first. But even with no other previous experiene of this kind, I could still say it was one bonggang-bonggang event. I honestly am not very fond of eyeball thingies but this just got me thinking of the delicious treats that I've been missing.

I went there with Isis and former officemates. Having spent some fun time with them sure made the night more enjoyable. Dante got lucky and won a 500 peso worth of betting certificate which was lost on the table in the blink of an eye. Hehehe.

The venue, talks, buffet, freebies, and interesting people were fantabulous. And what better way to wrap the night up with great music and overflowing free booze? ;) The Chivas bottles emptied out quickly leaving fundador, red wine and lotsa beer for us.

These two photos courtesy of Ice9Web

Isis and I also bought each a copy of Ms Janette Toral's Blogging at Home with a signed message from Ms J herself.

I would like to thank Engr. Cesar Noel S. Quiñon for several photos including that of me and Ms Janette.

One Helluv'an AMAZING Week: Yani in the House

2008-10-28T16:31:00.007+08:00

This Series entitled One Helluv'an Amazing Week shares my experiences within the past week. The title was chosen to express not just it's literal sense but figurative as well. I will not just be talking of mishaps. It has been a week of extremes.

Hope you enjoy the ride.

It started out with the headaches. Headaches of having to face Internet connection issues courtesy of Smart Bro. From Friday morning, on the 17th of October, I have had none at all. And because I do not have a landline, dial-up was not an option. I was thinking of buying a pre-paid portable modem but was short on cash. AMAZING! Yes, that's the first word you'd see on the tab when accessing the SmartBro Portal. For one, with all the bad word of mouth you'd pick just about everywhere in cyberspace, and even offline, I would not have had acquired it. But this is an existing account of my ate Yang that I'm just using to fill in the lock-in period.

This went on for five days. Imagine that! It would not have been much of an issue to some but I had to work on a conitnuing project which needs to be submitted daily back then until now. And though my client was understanding it still sucked BIG time.

But even with a bad start, I tried to not get consumed with the frustration building up.

And on the 18th, Ms Diana C. Amodia, a long time friend working in Manila for ages texted me. "Musta?"

I was not expecting that she was in Davao so having been invited to go out, the answer was a ready yes. Even when the date was planned to be postponed because of the rain, we still had the chance to go out with some of her friends also visiting from Luzon.

Matina Town Square was quite crowded with the Octoberfest celebrated at about every corner. One lovely and lively night for booze. :)

We were off to part after the establishments have closed at 2am. And me and Yani went to McDo to grab some bites and chat till the sun rose. As always, talking with her was great.

Love you Yani.. Hope to be able to afford visiting you soon. Hahaha

And the week goes on...

DigitalFilipino.com Club and Bloggers Davao Networking Event

2008-10-14T00:41:00.003+08:00

Calling all eCommerce and blogging enthusiasts...

Apil ta sa panagkitang magahitabo karong 21 sa Oktubre sa Pantawan Hall, Grand Regal Hotel, Lanang, Davao City.

Libre kini apil panihapon.

Kung kamo kalibangon..
Hehehe (seryus lang kaayo)

Kung kinsa may interesado, pag-register mo diri:

http://digitalfilipinoclub.blogspot.com/2008/09/october-21-digitalfilipinocom-club-and.html

Hinaut nga magkinitaay ta ninyo..

Better than Never to Have Loved...

2008-10-13T23:49:00.003+08:00

"with friendships, i try not to be so "attached" because i expect too much and eradicated expectations just hurt me. hehehe."

~Rica

A comment from my previous post on friendship, being a state of mind.

:)

Hurt can also be good. We ought to get hurt to be stronger. Many people think that I am strong, and in many ways I also think I am. But what they do not know is that I am weak when it comes to friends. I could go to certain extents and can sacrifice a lot of precious things for my friends. That's what makes me a good friend and also a great spoiler at that. See where my mistake was? :) I give too much. I love too much.

This very same reason also kept me saner than most when it comes to romantic love. :) I know how crazy I can get so I never got too involved. Let the men bleed! Hehehe

Like the millions of lovefools, I sure would love to love again. Hoping that next time, whether with new friends or bridging collapsed ties with old ones, I would steer clear of the same mistake.

BTW, Loi texted me after having read the post... it was a good surprise for her... She told me things were cool.. :)

Celebrating Mama Tit's Birthday at Loleng's Mountain Spring Resort

2008-10-12T16:47:00.024+08:00

Oct 1., Mama Tit's Birthday was spent at Loleng's Mountain Resort. Before clock struck eight in the morning, the Bueza clan was off to Toril. Here are some shots taken before reaching the resort:

Reaching Loleng's Mountain Spring Resort, my big li'l sister and I decided to be dropped off of the gate and walk our way into main resort area. We've been warned that it was along way to go but we insisted. We were welcomed by trees, trees and more tall trees flanking the paved dirt road. And further, though I have not yet been to Baguio, it was the first thought that came to me as we trekked along while pine trees towered over us .

Further still, a mini-plantation of what seemed to be thick snake-like leaves caught my attention. I was wondering why in the hell would the resort grow such unfashionable greens when my sis, Shirly, pointed out that those were actually cacti that bore edible fruits. According to her these were called 'dragon fruits' which looked somewhat like pineapples with insides like watermelon. Lucky me, by the end of the row, we caught sight of one. To me, it didn't resemble pineapples though. :) Amazing.

Halfway, kuya Jojo on motorcycle fetched us. Hehehe. The first photo taken was of moi (just arrived) joining 'te Nene and Nanay. Taken earlier was of the kids..

Still on motorcycle, the boating and fishing area already caught my eye. Though not as expansive, the atrtificial lake which was fed with water from a natural source still looked charming. Going down, small wooden boats can be seen tied to the elevated plank. Surrounding it was lovely railed walkways with some benches and tables situated in the farmost corners. Photos in the boating and fishing area with Lian sporting her new shades courtesy of Tita Geng:

We had a heart salo-salo at the picnic area which was conviniently near the playground. Soon, we had two tents and several hammocks set up. The kids with the kid at heart got busy.

After our fill of culinary delights, we headed to the swimming pool to soak up and have fun under the golden sun. The pools were beautifully set with lush greeneries of forest-like environment serving as backdrop. The kiddie pool was much colder, with the spring water directly flowing through, never-endingly filling it. The other pool, though not as wide is delightfully 7ft. deep. My Dylan had a fantabulous time jumping off and again into the pool.

After hours of drippin' fun, we were back to the picnic area to share the cake which did not last a minute. When gathered, joking around is common and often, we refer to ourselves as the 'hungry detergents'.

After a sweet indulgence, we spent the rest of the day exploring the resort, taking pictures and goofing around along the way.

Near the restaurant are elevated grounds where you can enjoy some sight-seeing to marvel at a portion of davao surrounded by the sparkling azure waters of the gulf.

Beyond the playing grounds is a vast area comprising of a basketball court, tennis court, a public bath, chapel and on higher land is a shrine crowned by a huge white cross. Soem areas of the shrine were covered with mini pine forests. I really enjoyed walking through them and watching up at the needle fineness of the leaves filtering sunlight. Just glorious.

Before haeading home, my Lian has again threw one of those tantraums. And Vessie had a good scratch. Not enjoyably at the back but on her...

Homeward..

Friendship: A State of Mind?

2008-10-08T22:55:00.007+08:00

Throughout my career both as an editorial assistant and virtual assistant, I have had created many email accounts. Revisiting one of my earliest from high school days, I had to empty the bulk folder with hundreds of spam emails and sift through more than a hundred Inbox emails. Saw a WAYN invitation from Aina. Got to the site, registered, got myself some contacts and then I got to the page where you'd have to say something about your friend. And that would be the person who invited me.

Doing this just got me so emotional I had to put it here.

"The best thing about Aina? Probably everything... that's why most every friend she meets calls her 'bestfriend'. One day, I heard her call me 'her bestfriend' I think that was the time when she was introducing me to this guy she liked. Just made a joke about it. I never thought she thinks that way about me."

And throughout highschool, well after my first year rather, I found it childish.

"Well doesn't matter now. I do miss her. And I hate it that I care too much.

Lately I've been wondering where my pride has gone. Though she shuns me off every chance she gets, I still text and call her.

It was just lately that I realized how 'really' pathetic I was getting. Another issue with another friend or other friends, rather, got me thinking.. thinking hard.

Do I have to beg you to let me help? I am overdoing it. I've put myself in a wretched situation.

I've always prided myself of being a good friend. But this probably just falls among my childhood frustrations.

Friendship has been something that I deeply treasure.

Now, when I think about it, I think about romantic love..

It probably is just a state of mind."

And now that I've started this, I might just as well pour my heart out.

If you read all the way down to the Muziklaban. You'd know that something happened. But it doesn't freakin' matter. Rachelle is still "blinded-by-love" or is just content with playing prey to manipulations. And Lorenz has not been the good ol' Loi that she has been since that night.

Well, hell... it does matter. (to me, maybe not to them..)

I have always thought that having few "true" friends was best.

I sure have learned a lot and only time will tell.

What I should do is stop caring, and soon I'll stop hurting.

And the big question is "Will I ever learn to stop caring?"

As the song goes, "Love Hurts"..

And I shan't Love? Imposible!

I'll just cross the bridge when I get there?

I will be in GenSan for the 2nd Mindanao Bloggers Summit

2008-10-03T15:14:00.008+08:00

Glad I got the chance to log into my YM and get to know about this.

I've long since been planning to go places, especially all throughout Mindanao.. I've been to GenSan several times though, but this time, I'll be there to attend the MBS2 and catch up with old friends and meet new acquaintances.

This would be the first summit or event staged by an online community that I'll be attending.

Madayaw!

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Muziklaban

2008-09-23T21:30:00.012+08:00

Ethan's party was over by 6pm. Together with my cousin Geng, my niece Thea and kids: Lian & Dylan went home with balloons and party goodies.

By 8, I was off to Matina Town Square to meet up with long-time friends, Lorenz and Akhe. We were there for Red Horse's Muziklaban--a battle of rock bands performing renditions of popular tracks by their favorite artists and originals. The succession of bands that played were really good showing off different styles and various musical concoction that flares authenticity.

The first two photos that I took would be those below. I was quite shy at first to turn on the flash as I didn't want to be getting unneeded attention. But the attempt was not very satisfying, and so for the sake of getting better shots, on goes the flash. And walla... see the very first photo? Magnifico, ain't it? Well, hell... I loved it. And if your a pro who thinks it's just a cheap shot, don't care.. :)

Loved the colors, colors of different hues and depth.. the beer, food, performances, and the crowd..

I also got the chance to get a good shot at my friends.. well that's what I think, hope they agree.. ;)

In the right corner... Rachelle Clemente a.k.a Akhe. Working somewhere in Luzon, one of the reasons for the night out was to get the time to be with her.

But without Akhe's coming, we, Loi and I would still have met and watched Muziklaban.

Loi, born Lorenz Flordalyn Tolentino, is another long-time friend who to my pleasurable surprise shares with me a lot of common things. From her passion for uncommon fashion, to the love of all things unique and darkly beautiful to music.

The photo below, obviously, is of me. Yes, not a very good photo of me. I won't agree if you tell me I was just not pretty that night. Hahaha For one, the timing was not right and the the photo-taker (not photographer ;)) was not just as artistic..

I also have a couple of videos but am not able yet to upload them as I've misplaced my mobile phone's cable. Too bad my battery was low, I really was not expecting to enjoy the performances that much... I was just there to see Urbandub. :)

And to end the night? Ziklab... but I am not to ruin the post..

Life is good and we have options. As they say, happiness is a choice... and that, I believe. It's never easy to turn your back ... and the phrase "enough is enough" will never be of the same extent for every person, especially in the case of women. And nobody can ever make that choice for us... (but us)

I've emphasized this more than once in this blog... "Love Yourself Woman!"

September 20, 2008: Ethan's Birthday

2008-09-23T21:19:00.002+08:00

Lian and Thea was invited to the attend the celebration of Ethan's third Birthday at Discovery City, NCCC Mall.

The Discovery City was once a huge fun-facility near the Victoria Plaza. I remember having to play there as a child. Now, the only thing that makes it still "the Discovery City" is the maze of play area with lots of colorful balls, slides and other fun things for kids to explore. It is now situated at the third level of the NCCC Mall with their party area to be found further into the the playing ground.

Lian can sometimes be a kill-joy, not much of a fun participant. The picture in the upper left-most was the welcome face that I got. After the meal though, her mood was a lot better. She must've just been hungry. :)

Episode

2008-09-22T06:28:00.003+08:00

Never failed to fail myself
I was..

Episodes..
Sucking the littlest of..

Can't even write sensibly

Atypical Sunday: Series 2

2008-09-20T10:27:00.004+08:00

Though not as uncommon as we've already had early Sundays spent walking but there was quite a long lapse before we did it again last Sunday. That day, we walked from Matina to Bankerohan. I was not planning of taking pics, but as we were going through the B'kerohan bridge, I just had to. :)

^^Sweaty me and Hubby. Walking through the Generoso Bridge (its official name ) that has fallen down, fallen down, fallen down.. But its now in great condition.. Because GMA Cares? With the later painted on both ends of the newer side of the bridge which was overlapped with vandals>> OUST!

In the market, we did what we obiously went there for, bought.

And heading home, in the jeep, I took just one more shot where the route turns to the left and into an intersection and out towards the birdge and into Matina. :)

Amazing Facts

2008-09-13T20:53:00.002+08:00

I’ve always been a fan of unbelievable facts as well as true murder stories… the later being that it amazes me how criminal minds work and how the crime busters are able to uncover the details.

When I get bored while online, you’ll either find me browsing and reading through crime stories, biographies of famous murderers, or looking up facts which would have seemed impossible but true.

Here are several which I have just known while researching and writing this post:

Words:

* Only 12 letters make up the Hawaiian alphabet.
* There are words that contain all the vowels in their standard order (a,e,i,o,u) and these are: facetious and abstemious.
* Among the English words, ‘set’ has the most definitions.
* Uncopyrightable is the only 15 letter word that is spelled without repeating any of its letters.
* Twyndyllyngs (meaning twins) is the longest English word not containing a vowel.
* Typewriter is the longest word that can be made only using one row on the keyboard.
* The name of all the continents ends with the same letter that they start with.

Animals:

* A flamingo cannot eat without having its head positioned upside down.
* Pigs are physically not able to look up at the sky.
* A pound if spider web, when stretched out continuously can circle the entire globe.
* Of all the animals on earth the mosquito has contributed to the deaths of more people than any other animal.
* An octopus has 3 hearts.
* A polar bear’s hair is not actually white but transparent. They appear white as light is reflected.
* A blue whale’s blood vessel is broad enough to have a person swim through it.

People and History:

* Albert Einstein, the famous scientist, never wore socks.
* Leonardo da Vinci suffered from dyslexia or a language-learning disability and often writes backwards.
* The infamous Nazi leader Adolf Hitler had only one testicle.
* One way of knocking the earth off of its own axis is having every person in China jump off from a chair at the same time.
* In the courts of the Roman Empire, instead of swearing an oath on a bible, men swore to the truth on their statements while holding their genitals. Hence the word 'testify', from 'testicles'.
* If the population of China walked past you in single file, the line would never end because of the rate of reproduction.

Science:

* Before the invention of matches, the lighter was already invented.
* A rain-drop is actually not tear-shaped but rather resembles a hamburger bun, as discovered by powerful cameras used by scientists.
* Astronauts are taller when out in space.

Internet:

* The first ever registered domain name was Symbolics.com
* The most expensive domain name for a price of $7.5 million is Business.com

Well there are still a lot more, but I’ll end here. An idea just came up. I’ll be setting up a blog with all things unbelievable and I’d probably title it “How Bizarre”..

:)

Friendster: Not as Friendly as Before

2008-09-12T12:50:00.001+08:00

With the growing popularity of Friendster comes the barrage of users. Recently, many new features have been introduced (applications like that of Facebook). Both these factors have given way to the gazillions of BUGS arising.

Is the Friendster Team not capable of keeping up with the user and data overload?

If you try to browse through the forum, specifically:

Forums Home→Friendster→Site feedback / Suggestions

You'll see a lot of reports on bugs and other FS issues.

And here are several that I have encountered:

* On Groups:

Everytime I visit Whatever group, and browse through... I always get this message:

Invalid Input
You have followed an invalid link. Please notify the webmaster how you got here.

Do I have to contact the webmaster each and everytime? Like I've already done the contacting ages ago.. and now, it got worse...

Months ago, everytime I post a reply to some topic I get this message, then some time later I go back to the page, and see multiple replies that was posted by me (which I thought was not posted since I got the error message)

Now?! Even if I just try to read any discussion... I automatically get this..

* Going through posts in Forums:

Error Message:

There was a problem displaying this page.
Page being viewed: /forums/PH/topic/list/11/page/3
Please use the back button on your browser to continue.

* I wanted to delete a post authored by me:

Error
Failed to delete post.

* I've already posted like alot but everytime I check, it takes several minutes before posts appear...

Aren't forums supposed to be updated real-time?

* Forum:

I was about to reply but found out that this has been deleted.. does the topic still need to appear even after the poster has deleted it?

* Trying to post:

Post flood triggered. Please try again in 15 second(s)

And here is a thread from the FS forum with the last reply posted by moi which pretty much sums up what I have to say:

posted: 09/5/2008 2:18 pm
Iwan
1 posts

What happened with friendster? Is it get worse?
I recently want to add my friend [1 person only] and I press invite button from "Invite your friends from your address book". What happened next was all email addresses from my address book showed up with check marks on it. I tried to cancel it but I could not find [if any] the "Cancell All" button, so I had to click remove from each emails.

I tried to look for support in FAQ but nothing mentioned, so I click "Send us a Question" and start typing my problem and I click "Submit Question". Later it showed Email Address Confirmation page, so I filled it in and press "Confirm Address" button. You know what happened next? It tells: Email Address Already Exists. The email address you provided is already in the database. What the f..k is happening with Friendster???? I think Friendster is getting worse now. Too bad.

posted: 09/7/2008 3:11 am
NARIKO
7 posts

RE: What happened with friendster? Is it get worse?
no. no. no. the invite button e-mails the person's email adress to JOIN FRIENDSTER. not add them. learn how to actually read.

posted: 09/9/2008 5:23 am
♥ єl яєy² ♥
4 posts

RE: What happened with friendster? Is it get worse?

Friendster is really an addiction for me.. But now, ie encountered a lot of problems! I really cant comment to my friends anymore.. What happened??.. And other more, If i want to forward my friend to my other friends, guess what? its not working! i better make this short.. hush! now its like, im already tired of updating my friendster because of that.. i hope you can fix it..

if u can fix it, please juzt email me or send me a message in my friendster accounts..

i hope someone can help me as soon as possible..

posted: 09/10/2008 9:14 pm
LeFuL
271 posts

RE: What happened with friendster? Is it get worse?

just be glad FS is FREE

posted: 09/11/2008 9:50 pm
aWeNg
13 posts

RE: What happened with friendster? Is it get worse?

Yes, a lot of things in the Internet is free.. So if they are free, they should be expecting more and more users. With this in mind, they should have been capable of keeping up with the barrage of possible FS registrations.

If they don't make things better for users, they will be shifting towards other social networking sites. That's for sure.

As I have indicated.. alot of things in the internet are free. Finding other "better and more service-oriented" sites will not be a problem.

I have just posted a topic about not being able to browse through group discussions without getting an error message. But as soon as I supposedly published the post, it does not show up?! Forums should be updated "real-time"

Bugs.. bugs.. bugs!!!

Google Chrome

2008-09-11T15:42:00.003+08:00

After having been introduced by YM buddy Mike Sasuman to me, I tried it.

The first thought that came into my mind after having it installed and running it? Opera.

As I've tried it for several days, I thought, 'No wonder Google have kept its release as less advertized..' And eventually, it was the users, Internet bloggers, etc. that spread the word.

I found some bugs which was getting annoying in the long run so I switched back to Firefox and had the thing uninstalled.

Maybe next time...

Get Busy..

2008-09-10T19:46:00.007+08:00

These are the things that keep me busy nowadays...

Since, I'm not much of a cook, at least I try to prepare healthy food :D

But I'll be working on it... pwomis ;)

But what really keeps me busy? Well, that would be keeping them busy...

:)

I'll just have to enjoy things while they last... It's not everyday that I get to do these.

After a while, I'll then go back busy mode.

Time sure flies...